Obedience

When I compare my Mum and my Mum's Mum, I find very little difference. My Grandmother is very loyal to my Grandfather, my Mum is very loyal to my Dad.

Both keep quiet when the Husbands say things, even when they don't like it (But I've seen my Mum actually tell my dad to shut up!), both would follow the Husbands 'even to certain death'.

My Grandmother has real strength that I see in my Mum. But I know they can both be as stubborn as Asses.

A friend's boyfriend once asked me (the topic was bout marriage) if I would be Obedient to my husband. I was really surprised when I answered yes as if it was the world's most obvious answer.

I kind of hope to be like them if I marry. But the way it looks at this point in time I don't think so. Coz I don't think I know my place.